As anyone who’s met me in the past year-and-a-half is probably aware, I have a cat. She’s called Shanti and she’s very fluffy and cuddly.
On any given day, I’ll probably say most or all of these things to her:
“You’re lovely.” “You’re so pretty!” “You’re beeeautiful.” “You’re perfect.” “You’re my bestest friend!” and so on.
All normal things for a crazy cat lady to say to her feline friend.
But one day I got thinking – how come I, or indeed so many of us, don’t give these compliments to our real-life human friends with remotely the same regularity?
La La Land
Although I’ll happily acknowledge its faults, I was still taken in by La La Land, like so many others. I was almost put off in the first scene by some dizzying and relentless camerawork which actually made me feel a bit queasy. Thankfully, things calmed down and, although the whirling long shots returned on occasion, I was able to sit back and enjoy the songs.
I’ve been listening to the soundtrack for days – I love all the songs and the beautiful instrumental themes, made all the more impressive by the fact Ryan Gosling learnt jazz piano for the film. He and Emma Stone are wonderful together, yet again, and though the story can be rather bittersweet it is a totally joyful ride. I’d happily watch this again very soon.
I’ve lived in London for three years now and I love being near so many places of interest and activities.
In reality though I work in Surrey so it’s not as simple as it might be to get out and about in London. But weekends and evenings certainly still have a sense of possibility (and I do get to a lot of concerts and shows).
I’ve decided to create a bucket list of everything in London I’d love to do that I never have so I can start work on it this year.
A short list of 2017 resolutions/goals but I thought it would add some extra obligation if it’s written on the internet.
- Do a 10k
- Read 52 books
- Blog once a week
- Learn a challenging new piece on the piano, clarinet AND saxophone
- Write some short stories
- Go away somewhere new
In New Zealand in September 2016
After my first 5k in 2016
And this is all the fun stuff already scheduled in that I can look forward to.
- Live music: Busted, Caro Emerald, Electric Six, Frankie Valli, London Symphony Orchestra, Take That, Electric Light Orchestra, Michael Ball and Alfie Boe
- Other live events: Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, Greg Davies
- Two weddings of schoolfriends
- Frazer’s return from New Zealand
In today’s fast-paced world, surrounded by news of Trump and Brexit and celebrities dying, it’s easy to get caught up and forget what’s really important in your own life.
Even if you manage to ignore the cyclic nature of the news as driven by social media, repeating the same fears and worries and bad news over and over, most of us are still racing around to and from work with barely a second thought about the important things which are quickly passing us by.
So, inspired by this post on The Pool (which is always on point) I have decided to spend a week listing three good things I’m grateful for each day – because it’s important to pause, remember, and let these positive thoughts rise to the forefront of our priorities.